Men I know and work with often ask me, can a woman even be a narcissist? Popular psychology has pushed the notion that narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is primarily a male condition, but that what most people believe about narcissism is false. So, can women be narcissists?Read More →
May 03, 2021
In online circles I often see people discussing their nex without defining what exactly that means. Here is a quick definition for anyone wonder exactyl what a NEX is:Read More →
April 26, 2021
Many victims of narcissists often report that their abusers have a strange or even demonic aspect to their gaze. This article will uncover evidence of the narcissist's exceptional stare and what it means to you.Read More →
February 14, 2021
Narcissists have a habit of quickly moving between relationships: courting, manipulating, and then discarding their prey. It is natural for those who have suffered discard to wonder if a narcissist ever regrets their decision to throw us away.Read More →
February 12, 2021
Some clients wonder why they always seem to attract narcissists. That has a lot to do with the way that you act. Whether you want a narcissist in your life, or want to learn how to get away, here are five things you do that makes narcissists addicted to you.Read More →
February 10, 2021
Narcissists have an exceptional ability to push our buttons, make us mad, and draw us into their emotional drama. To live with them, heal from them, and overcome them, we must learn how not to take their bait. Here is how you react to a narcissist, so they don't get to you.Read More →
February 09, 2021
Working under a narcissistic boss is always a trial. Research has shown that while managers are more likely to be narcissists than the general population, teams run by narcissists tend to be less effective. Here are nine ways that a narcissistic boss is sabotaging your team's effectiveness and morale.Read More →
February 08, 2021
The essential action that most people miss when overcoming a narcissist is taking radical responsibility for their actions. While so many coaches, therapists, and counselors emphasize the emotional effect of what has been done to you, few leverage the power of what you can do for yourself.Read More →
February 07, 2021
The Narcissist's Prayer is a powerful message that exposes the mind of a narcissist in a clear and succinct way. Making the rounds frequently on forums and Facebook groups for victims of narcissist's, this is the narcissist's prayer and what it means.Read More →
February 06, 2021
Fun and shareable quotes and meme text photos about narcissistic parenting.Read More →
February 05, 2021
One common but infuriating tactic of narcissists is that they suddenly act like everything is fine after a big fight, blow up, or significant abuse on their part. How do you deal with a narcissist pretending nothing happened?Read More →
February 04, 2021
In spiritual or new age groups, I've found there are inevitably numerous I've found there are inevitably numerous narcissists who have infiltrated the community claiming to be an empath, healer, or guru in spiritual or new-age groups. Here is how why they do this, how you recognize these false sages, and what to do about it.Read More →
February 03, 2021
People often ask, what can I do to scare away the narcissist in my life. Scaring a narcissist isn't very difficult if you know their weak spot. Here are four practical ways to scare away a narcissist.Read More →
February 02, 2021
Living with a narcissist is never an easy task. While things can start great, over time, they infringe on your personal space, cause drama, steal, or even make false accusations against you. In this article, I'll share my experience of overcoming a narcissistic roommate.Read More →
February 01, 2021
For those of us that love a narcissist and want to keep them interested, you have to throw traditional notions about romantic love and bonding out the window. None of these work with a narcissist. Instead, this is how you make a narcissist obsessed with you.Read More →
January 31, 2021
If you are a boss, coworker, contractor, friend, or neighbor of a narcissist, you might wonder what you can do to maintain a cordial, professional relationship with them. Narcissists don't react to people the same way that ordinary people do and require a different approach. Here is how you make a narcissist respect you.Read More →
January 30, 2021
If you have a narcissist close to you, you have probably noticed their strange obsession with money. They might seem greedy or generous, but they use their cash against you either way.Read More →
January 29, 2021
Narcissists make the worst neighbors when they have decided to start a vendetta against you. You may have done nothing, and there is nothing that you can say to convince them to stop tormenting you. Here is how you deal with a narcissistic neighbor who stalks you.Read More →
January 28, 2021
Need help overcoming narcissistic abuse in your life. This newsletter provides the encouragement and support that you need to get through the tough times and live the empowered life that you were meant to live.Read More →
January 27, 2021
People with borderline personality disorder naturally attract narcissists. Yet, there is a clear winner in this complimentary personality pair of toxic people. This is why narcissists are no match for borderlines.Read More →
January 26, 2021
One way to deal with narcissistic coworkers, bosses, acquaintances, classmates, and other toxic people you can't avoid is the gray rock method. Learn how to use this simple technique and what to do if it doesn't work for you. So what is the gray rock method?Read More →
January 25, 2021
Clients and victims of narcissists that I have spoken with all seem to have the same experience of being called names by their narcissistic abuse. Whether cute pet names or profoundly abusive insults, name-calling fit right into a narcissist's mode of operating. Here is why narcissists ts call you names.Read More →
January 24, 2021
Self-knowledge or introspection is the first and most important first step to overcoming abuse from narcissists. Yet, so many people get this step wrong or skip it altogether, leading to failure. In this post, I'll share a fool-proof introspection technique that I developed to overcome my own experience with narcissism.Read More →
January 23, 2021
When I was removing from narcissistic abuse from an ex-girlfriend, I made the huge mistake that almost everyone makes. This mistake prevented me from overcoming the trauma of narcissistic abuse. But then I found the key to healing from traumatic experiences, which I want to share with you today.Read More →
January 22, 2021
When dealing with a narcissist, sometimes we have to flip the script and make them just as mad as they make us. Luckily, if you know what you are doing, it is easy to get the upper hand over people with narcissistic personalities. Here are nine things that drive a narcissist crazy!Read More →
January 21, 2021
In many narcissistic relationships, the only solution to end long term abuse involves going no contact. This means cutting off all communication for a period of time to allow healing on the victim's part. Here is how you successfully go no contact with a narcissistic abuser.Read More →
January 20, 2021
One surprising fact about narcissists is that some of them don't take care of themselves, rarely bathing or cleaning up after themselves. How is it that a self centered narcissist can also have so little regard for their hygiene?Read More →
January 19, 2021
This pages catalogs the best quotes about narcissistic liars. Great for emotional support, social posts, or background wallpapers for your phone.Read More →
January 18, 2021
Sometimes, it's nice to be able to get under a narcissist's skin. Luckily, pissing off a narcissist is easy if you know what makes them angry. Here are 16 ways to annoy a narcissist.Read More →
January 17, 2021
When you leave a narcissist, they involuntarily go through a cycle of loss and coping, which has the potential to be extremely destructive. Before you make a move away from the narcissist in your life, be sure you understand what to expect. Here is what happens when you cut off contact with a narcissist.Read More →
January 16, 2021
The classic image of a narcissist is a woman decked out in expensive makeup. But, does makeup use indicate narcissism? Found out what the research says.Read More →
January 15, 2021
Those of you who have experienced the pain that I've felt dating a narcissist may wonder why they always seem to be one corner of a narcissistic love triangle. Rather than feeling bad about cheating, narcissists feel empowered by having multiple lovers. Here are the reasons why narcissists constantly build love triangles in their lives.Read More →
January 14, 2021
Advice for people with narcissistic parents or bystanders of children with narcissistic parents. Answers to five commonly asked questions about narcissism in relationships between narcissistic fathers and mothers and their sons and daughters.Read More →
January 13, 2021
Is your father or mother a narcissist? Here are five commonly questions asked by children of narcissistic parents with answers.Read More →
January 12, 2021
When I was working my way out of a narcissistic business or personal there were times when I needed to throw my abuser off balance. Other times, I needed to know what to avoid to prevent a blowup. Narcissists have clear and decisive triggers, making them easy to control if you know the trick. Here are nine ways to throw a narcissist into a panic that work every time.Read More →
January 11, 2021
One of the dangers of dealing with a narcissist is that they tend to lash out when they feel they are losing control of a situation. In my life and work with clients, I have seen how disastrous narcissistic tantrums can be. Here are nine ways that a narcissist might act when they lose control.Read More →
January 10, 2021
While we often talk about narcissists as if they are a completely different species, the fact is everyone is a little narcissistic now and again. But, are you or your loved ones too narcissistic? Here are the levels of narcissism, from healthy to dangerous, to help you determine what is normal and what isn't.Read More →
January 09, 2021
Narcissists live a life driven by subconscious fears that motivate all their destructive behaviors. Whether you want to know how to control a narcissist or how to avoid their trigger points, here are nine things that frighten narcissists deeply.Read More →
January 08, 2021
In business, we can't always choose the clients that we serve. Providing services to a narcissist is never easy. But since the rate of narcissism increases as you go up corporate hierarchies, all successful business will run in to a narcissistic client at some point. Here are nine tips to develop a successful working relationship with a narcissistic client.Read More →
January 06, 2021
Narcissistic employees are a challenge to motivate, and often present a professional risk to their supervisors. From my experience managing narcissists and executive coaching clients with narcissistic employees, here is how you deal with a narcissistic subordinate directly.Read More →
January 05, 2021
Many victims of narcissists who tell me their story wonder if anything their narcissist is actually true. Let me share with you the real truth about narcissistic liars.Read More →
January 04, 2021
Narcissists all tend to say the same kinds things. These are their catchphrases that the develop to protect themselves and push their agenda. Overtime I have collected this list of common phrases the me and my clients have heard from narcissists in our lives.Read More →
January 03, 2021
Are you ready to put a narcissist in their place and stop their endless head games? I've dealt with numerous abusive narcissists over the years. And, here are nine of the most effective ways I've found to shutdown a narcissist.Read More →
January 02, 2021
Narcissists in the workplace take a multitude of roles. Here are nine of the most common types of people who you may not have realize are narcissists.Read More →
January 01, 2021
Korean mothers are renowned for their strict discipline and the relentless way they drive their children to succeed. Many children report long term trauma because of this helicopter parenting style. But, how do you know if you Korean mother is actually a narcissist, and what do you do about it?Read More →
December 31, 2020
When you have a narcissist employee under your supervision, it is a tricky dance that you have to do, to get the best out of them. I have seen that narcissists can be the best employees on your team, or the worst, depending on how you manage them. Here is my secret to supervising narcissistic employees.Read More →
December 30, 2020
We all know people who are too smart for their own good, and need to show everyone just how much they know. But, are these know-it-alls people dangerous narcissists?Read More →
December 29, 2020
While we attribute many heinous crimes to psychopaths, researchers have found many such killers to exhibit traits of narcissistic personality disorder as well. Here are some of the most famous murderers, serial killer, and mass homicides attributed to be a known narcissist.Read More →
December 28, 2020
One of the reasons I spend so much time teaching clients how to overcome narcissism, is because narcissists tend to gravitate toward key professions, where they can do the most damage. Here are 11 of the jobs most likely jobs to be held by a narcissist.Read More →
December 27, 2020
All narcissistic sisters are jealous of their sibling, especial other girls, and try to make their life a living hell. Worst of all, they try to make you think you are crazy for feeling that they are attacking your. Here are nine signs that your of a jealous narcissist sister to deal with.Read More →
December 26, 2020
When we are part of a narcissist family, it can be hard to tell that what we are experiencing isn't normal. Narcissist parents create a family structure that keeps us helpless and feeling like we are the problem. Here is what defines a narcissistic family structure.Read More →
December 25, 2020
Managing a narcissistic employee can be both difficult to get right and extremely rewarding. But, if you give them too much leeway, they can cause endless troubles in the workplace. Here are nine tips for coping with narcissistic employee, and our 5 step method for making a narcissist your all-star employee.Read More →
December 24, 2020
Narcissists are adept at using insults to hurt you and get their way. I've experienced more than my fair share of narcissistic insults in my time. Here are the 10 most common types of narcissistic insults that I have encountered, and what to do about them.Read More →
December 23, 2020
Narcissists can be astoundingly hypocritical. Narcissists I have dealt with in my life just blow me away with how they can say one thing, and then do another with absolutely no regret or embarrassment. That's why I've written this article to help clients overcome narcissistic hypocrisy.Read More →
December 22, 2020
Have you ever wondered if your dad is a narcissist? Many clients wonder if their dad truly has a problem, or if they are just imagining things. That's why I developed this bullet proof test. Here is your checklist to identify a narcissistic dad:Read More →
December 21, 2020
If you are around a narcissist long enough, you will eventually experience the narcissistic stare. This is an extremely unsettling gaze that I didn't quite understand the first time I saw it. Let me fill you in what I've come to learn about this stare of death.Read More →
December 20, 2020
Is someone you know pretending they have military service, public service, or a medical career that you know is false? Does someone create disasters only to come and sweep them up. You may have a narcissist with a hero complex on you hands.Read More →
December 19, 2020
Triangulation is a tactic used by narcissist family members to devastating effect. I've seen how harmful it can be in relationships between mothers, fathers, brothers, and sisters. Let's talk about triangulation abuse when you have a narcissistic family member.Read More →
December 18, 2020
Narcissists always seem to come out of bad situations without remorse or punishment for their abuse. Why doesn't their karma catch up with them? After spending hundreds of hours researching the origins of narcissism and working with victims of narcissists, I think I found the link between narcissism and karma.Read More →
December 17, 2020
Coaching a narcissist employee is a difficult task because they find it difficult to accept and act on well meaning advice. But, they can also be your most valuable employee, well worth the effort to learn how to mentor them effectively. Let me share with you my experience effectively coaching narcissist employees.Read More →
December 16, 2020
Narcissist employees have a way of making themselves very useful if not indispensable to an organization. Having managed narcissists in the past, I've seen them practically take over organizations, where management isn't wary of the games they play. So, how do you manage a narcissistic employee?Read More →
December 15, 2020
Narcissistic coworkers sabotage you in many subtle yet effective ways. You may not even realize that they are hurting your career, until it is too late, unless you know what to look for. Here are nine ways I've seen narcissists sabotage their coworkers in both my experience and stories I've heard from clients.Read More →
December 14, 2020
Working with a narcissistic can make your work life terrible with their constant manipulation, back stabbing, and seeking out ways to take you down. Here are the best ways to counter a narcissist at workRead More →
December 13, 2020
Triangulation is one of the favorite tactics of a narcissistic boss, which they use to confuse and control their employees. In my time, I've seen triangulation used to devastating effect multiple times. Are you experiencing narcissistic triangulation at work? Here is how you deal with it.Read More →
December 12, 2020
Working for a narcissist boss is never easy. I spent many years working for narcissist bosses, before I realized the harm that they were doing. Here are 9 tactics that I've seen used by narcissist bosses to control their employees.Read More →
December 11, 2020
Ancient symbol of corrupt femininity and evil influence, Jezebel is a biblical character that many consider to be the archetype of narcissism. Does the spirit of Jezebel inhabit modern day narcissistic women?Read More →
December 10, 2020
To victims of narcissists, it may seem crazy how they are able to constantly provide excuses their their behavior. But, narcissistic justification follows a consistent pattern that once you know you can use to your advantage. Here are seven justifications used by narcissists.Read More →
December 09, 2020
When you are an employee of a narcissist boss, being given the silent treatment is a terrifying thing. Stone walling, the cold shoulder, no matter what you call it, it is a form of narcissistic manipulation. Here is what you need to know when your boss is ignoring you.Read More →
December 08, 2020
Narcissist gravitate to positions of power, and christian church leadership is no exception. While we like to think of pastors, preacher, priests, and elders as doing the work of god, some are putting themselves before God. Here is how you identify and escape narcissistic church leadership.Read More →
December 07, 2020
Narcissists frequently have divorces and get remarried? Why would a narcissist do this. Can you expect them to get better? Here is how a narcissist handles a remarriage.Read More →
December 06, 2020
No one's in-laws are perfect, but there is almost nothing worse than a narcissistic christian mother in law. In my experience they seem like such nice people on the outside. But as you get to know them, the depths of their psychological manipulation have no bounds. Here is how you deal with a christian narcissist mother-in-law.Read More →
December 05, 2020
The silent treatment is a tactic of control and manipulation used by narcissistic coworkers in order to dominate you. Here's what it means when a narcissistic worker ignores you, and what to do about it.Read More →
December 04, 2020
Looking for help overcoming a narcissist or narcissism in your life? I've accumulated the largest directory of places to get help, including in person christian counseling and online christian counseling.Read More →
December 03, 2020
Those raised in a toxic household under the rule of a narcissistic christian mother had a particularly difficult childhood experience. Because religious narcissists have somewhat different traits than non-religious varieties, I'll explain here how to deal with a christian narcissist mother.Read More →
December 02, 2020
Abusive narcissists follow a predictable pattern of emotional states. Understanding these ups and downs is key to overcoming narcissistic abuse and short circuiting thee the narcissistic abuse cycle.Read More →
December 01, 2020
Christian narcissists are difficult to work for because they see themselves as saviors of everyone around them, but in actually cause endless trouble. If you think you have narcissistic christian boss on your hands, here is how you deal with them.Read More →
November 30, 2020
Narcissists are notoriously difficult to manage, yet tend to be star employees. Disciplining a narcissist using typical management methods will often not have the desired corrective effect, and may cause the narcissist to poison the work environment. Here is how you discipline a narcissist effectively.Read More →
November 29, 2020
Love bombing is a common manipulation tactic that I have experienced from narcissistic bosses as a means of controlling workers. When we think of narcissists, most people don't associate over the top praise, and so this portent technique goes unnoticed. Here is how you spot and counter love bombing from your narcissistic boss.Read More →
November 28, 2020
A particularly potent combination of psychological traits is the borderline narcissistic parent. There isn't much material out there on how to deal with a mother or father with both conditions, which is why I thought it was important to explain how to overcame borderline narcissistic parents ---Read More →
November 27, 2020
Narcissistic bosses are everywhere, and with the majority of CEOs having narcissistic traits, they will likely still be there for years to come. Here are 16 signs of narcissistic boss abuse, and what to do about them ---Read More →
November 25, 2020
Narcissistic husbands can be easy to love early in the relationships, being --- extroverted, externally self-confident, and socially adept. The challenge is to love them through all of their faults. Here is how you maintain a relationship with a christian narcissistic husband ---Read More →
November 24, 2020
Christian counseling is a mix between religious and secular counseling the brings in a God-centered point of view. However, if you are unlucky enough to have a run in with a narcissistic christian counselor, you are likely to come out of therapy more damaged than when you started. Here is how you overcome narcissistic christian counseling.Read More →
November 23, 2020
Narcissistic bosses are always difficult to deal with, and one of their most effective tactics is gaslighting. Where they make you think you are going crazy and try to make you question reality. Here is how you deal with a gaslighting narcissistic boss ---Read More →
November 22, 2020
Firing a narcissist is a pivotal but potential dangerous process for any business. Having seen how much damage a narcissist can do on the way out of a position, I've acculturated all the information available on firing a narcissist in to this article.Read More →
November 21, 2020
For those of us born in to a narcissistic christian household, it can particularly difficult to recover from narcissistic parental abuse. Interweaving of narcissistic cooping and religious teachings make it difficult to know what is real and what is imagination. This is how you deal with a narcissistic christian parent.Read More →
November 20, 2020
Working for a narcissistic boss can get anyone down. Here are some of the best quotes on the net, that always make me feel better after I look at them.Read More →
November 19, 2020
For many years, I worked directly with a narcissistic boss who made my life heck. Eventually, I developed these techniques to overcome his narcissistic personality. Here is how I manipulated my narcissistic boss.Read More →
November 18, 2020
In my time working with victims of toxic people, I have found the vulnerable narcissist to be by far the most difficult to spot. Because they hide it so well, vulnerable narcissists can be hard to deal with. Here are nine ways you can spot a vulnerable narcissist in you midst.Read More →
November 17, 2020
When I first worked for a narcissistic boss, their destructive tendencies came as a shock. It was a struggle to learn how to work with them, but I was eventually able to succeed in that business, and make my way to a better work environment. These are the three techniques that I used to overcome toxic leadership.Read More →
October 06, 2020
In my experience narcissists very frequently use judgment as a weapon. Knowing the difference between honest criticism and aggressive, but veiled, judgment from narcissist parents, family, romantic partners, and coworkers is essential to overcoming. Here is how you overcome judgmental narcissists.Read More →
September 30, 2020
Does refusing to wear a face mask make someone a narcissist? Or a psychopath? With recent research in the news let's take a look at what the sensationalists won't tell you. And, what it really means to be around toxic people in medical crisis.Read More →
September 29, 2020
Narcissists are rarely, if ever, able to acknowledge when they have done wrong by others. While everyone makes mistakes sometimes, narcissists are compelled to use strategies to mask their guilt, and shift the blame to others. Here are 15 fake apologies I've seen used by narcissists, along with examples of each:Read More →
September 27, 2020
Do you love a narcissist, be wonder if what if what you are feeling is real or healthy? Narcissist can be extremely manipulative and are experts at confusing their victims, making it hard to know if it's your fault or theirs. Here is what narcissism in relationships means for everyone involved.Read More →
July 12, 2020
When one or more of your parents is a narcissist, it can be extremely difficult to overcome their manipulation and lack of love. Here is my personal experience, and that of a coaching others through this, how you can deal with a narcissist parent in your life.Read More →
July 11, 2020
You may wonder, why are some people narcissists? As the parent of a narcissistic child or partner to a narcissist, can you be at fault? Here is what we know about how narcissism is developed in an individual.Read More →
July 10, 2020
Ever wondered if you might have a narcissist on your hands, or even be a narcissist yourself. After spending years observing the behavior of narcissists, here are 21 common habits of the narcissist, and one bonus.Read More →
July 08, 2020
If you have had the realization that you might be a narcissist, then congratulations on your honesty. It can be extremely difficult for a true narcissist to be able to see or acknowledge it in themselves. Let's skip the endless lists, and I'll get right to the heart of what I've noticed to be the key identifier of a true narcissist.Read More →
July 07, 2020
There's a lot of psycho-babble out there obscuring the core truth of what it means to be a malignant narcissist, a particularly dangerous form of narcissism. From my personal experience, this is what defines an malignant narcissist.Read More →
July 06, 2020
No one likes to think that their own mother might be a toxic person, but an unrecognized narcissistic mother can do a lot of damage to their children. Having experienced a narcissistic mother firsthand, I'd like to share with you tactics for identifying and surviving life with a narcissist mother.Read More →
July 05, 2020
Narcissist behavior can be hard to spot if you don't know how. None of the narcissists I have known fit in to the fascinated by their own reflection mold of Greek myth. Here is the best way I have found to identify real narcissistic behavior.Read More →
July 04, 2020
Narcissists employ varied and creative means to torment their targets. Victims often don't notice or mistake the signs that they are in a toxic relationship. From my own experience and client stories, this is how you tell if you have an abusive narcissist on your hands.Read More →
July 01, 2020
We can all read the dictionary definition of narcissist. But as someone who has faced narcissists in my own life, I know it isn't always obvious when the people we love suffer from this affliction. That's why I wrote this article, to help you sort out what it really means to be a narcissist from a bystanders perspective.Read More →
June 30, 2020
Covert narcissists are everywhere. It took me a long time to identify them in my life, and I had to suffer their hidden abuse for many years until I learned how to handle them. Over time, I figured out this one fool proof test to find the covert narcissists in my life.Read More →
June 29, 2020
Daniel Mark Schwartz
As a former victim of a psychopath in my life, I wrote this site to help everyone overcome issues with psychopathic people in their life. Whether family members, friends, bosses, or coworkers we all have toxic people to overcome.